The Definition of Love - Part 4

 "Just because two people argue, it does not mean they don't love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it does not mean they do. So, If you wanna be TOGETHER,then you're gonna have TO-GET-HER''



     If you are a lady,don't marry a man who can not control his below the belt faculties. No matter how its doing you (pun intended) Go and sew jeans pant,wear it!. The truth is that you have the ability to manage everything God has given to you. Your emotions are not for binding,they're for controlling. Control is always your choice.

   If he loves you,he will wait for you.If she loves you,she will wait for you. If he loves you,he will make himself deserve you - how will he make himself deserve you? He will pass through all the rigors,he will pass through everything he needs to pass through to become someone who is responsible enough to come to your parents and say ''I am ready to take your daughter,not just into a house but into a home." He will prepare himself to make you proud.That kinda love that ends
after five rounds of s*x I can't understand it.

   When somebody says 'I love You' what does it mean? I'm saying this this morning,so you can develop a buffer in your heart. When someone says 'I love you',I think sometimes you should just be indifferent.I dont mean this kind of love; when they say in church ''tell your neighbour I love you'' and you just look at the person and you're like ''hmmm mtcheeew''... NO! ... When someone says '' I love you'' You should be like ''okay I'm watching.You really love me? I'm watching.'' Because the person will prove his love as he continues to know you but most times as they begin to know you,they take steps backwards.



    He didn't love you in the first place,you thought he did. He liked your dress,he liked your smile,he liked the way you talk,he liked the way you smell. Your Versace red jean,(Oh My!) Was turning him on.Thank God we can be turned on,but you can also turn off yourself.When your emotional ignition is turned on,don't steam yet don't be in a hurry. Just put it off and hold yourself and tell yourself to cooperate.You have dignity,you have value,you have worth - let him deserve you. You are not an emotional dumping ground for someone who cannot control his emotional excesses,you are not a dustbin for someone's emotional errors. So when he's thinking about what to do with his wild emotions -
 ''Hello where are you now? Where are you now?''
 ''Ah! Ah! Its 10:30pm of course I'm in my house.''
 ''Can I come over?"
 ''For what???"
 ''Okay if I can't come,can you come?''...
 '' I just went I didn't know why he was asking me to come by 11 o'clock''

If you trust him,and he asks you to come over,that's a different case. I'm gonna have to
draw the curtains here for today....The last text of the final draft will be ready soon.....

Yours,
Onile Justice