fingers. Similarly when misunderstanding grow up,cut your ego not your relationship.''

     'What is love?' Before accepting to date someone,you have to know what love is. You have

to know that love is a responsibility,You have to know that Love is a choice,Love is much

more about giving rather than exploiting somebody else.''I love you so much!,You mean

you can not just prove to me that you love me? How come you say you love me when you

wouldn't just let me hold you the way I want to hold you,when you wouldn't just spend

one night.Just one night! Am I asking for too much? '' ''No you're not asking for too

much,just one night ( remember that song? 'One more night')

     Love is not exploitative,love does not try to manipulate the other person.Love does not try

to take the the dignity and the pride out of that person. Many ladies out there have lost

their dignity to somebody at some point because somebody thought or told you or made

you believe that he loved you. Love does not steal from the other person.

Love is patient.Why is love patient? Even when it comes to emotions,you're willing to wait

for it. Sex is worth waiting for! ( Reuben in the bible lost his inheritance because of sex).

One bible verse I keep very close to my heart is proverbs 31:3 '' 3 Do not give your

strength to women,your ways to those who destroy kings. (ESV)'' some versions would put

it as '' don't spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have

destroyed kings.''

     If you are a lady,don't marry a man who can not control his below the belt faculties. No

matter how its doing you ( hehehe,pun intended) Go and sew jeans pant,wear it!. The

truth is that you have the ability to manage everything God has given to you. Your

emotions are not for binding,they're for controlling. Control is always your choice. If he

loves you,he will wait for you.If she loves you,she will wait for you. If he loves you,he will

make himself deserve you - how will he make himself deserve you? He will pass through

all the rigors,he will pass through everything he needs to pass through to become

someone who is responsible enough to come to your parents and say '' I am ready to take

your daughter,not just into a house but into a home." He will prepare himself to make you

proud.

Till Tomorrow,

Onile Justice...