The definition of love Part 5 - If you really love her,you'll be patient with her.

''Her nagging is a sign that she cares.Her silence means she's plotting your death.'' She's not always that sweet,loving and caring girl that loves to tease you.Play with you,Kiss You and do those cute stuff with you. She's not always that nice girl who gives you that warm smile and loves to play with your hair and tickle your stomach. Because sometimes or should I say most of the time,she can be that annoying girl who will test your patience. She can be an irritating,thick-headed girl who loves to run in circles and give you mixed signals that'll surely freak you out. She will get in your nerve and dealing with her is not that easy. Her unpredictability can be a very big problem knowing she's not that easy to read and thinking of what you'll do with her when she is in that state is like solving a puzzle,very hard. She wants you to chase after her,and if you don't,she'll get mad. She'll push you one second,and pull you the next . she can be a real problem in the ass."


    But then again, if you really love her, you'll be patient with her. In the beginning, you already know that she isn't the easiest girl to put up with. You should already know that she is unpredictable and once in a while,this behaviour of her will possess her,and that when this time comes, you should know what to do already. Because she's your girl.She's the extension of yourself so you should know her that well. If she's mad,and provoking you,then you should know how to calm yourself down because if you also let anger eat you,you'll just fight and it won't do any good. If she's sad,you should already know the right timing for everything. You know when its time to crack a joke,when its the right time to be serious,and when its the right time to just sit down with her and listen. She can be annoying and irritating,but at the end of the day,she can also be that sweet,loving and submissive girl. You can't just love her sweet side,because if you really love her,you'll also love her rough parts.

      Believe me when I tell you,there are some messed up girls/boys out there. So believe me again when I tell you,if you actually have a good girl/boy by your side,you treat them right. Don't take advantage of the fact he/she is kind to you and he/she let's things slide with you,don't go around making other girls/boys fall in love with you when you already have a girl/boy who would do anything you ask him/her too. A good woman/A gentleman is almost becoming extinct nowadays,some people just lack morality and respect for themselves. If you've got a keeper,don't be a dumb ass and mess that up,because some guys/girls would give anything to have that.

     Bob marley said If she's amazing,She won't be easy,If she's easy she won't be amazing. If she's worth it,you won't give up. If you give up,you're not worthy... Truth is,everyone is gonna hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. she flinches when you put your arm around her,someone else's hands wasn't soo sweet.If she questions you,someone else lied to her. If she doesn't tell you things,someone else once betrayed her secrets. Behind every cranky,complicated girl or girl who is scared to love is a girl who is tired of being broken.She may come across as hard to get,but that's because she's been through a few things,seen a few things.Been there done that. She's cold...yes,but only because she once cared about someone who failed to care about her. She's built a fortress to protect her heart from further damage. You told her that you're different but she won't believe that until you prove it. Words don't mean a thing,actions are everything.


     But some People are just naturally greedy you know? You've probably seen the likes before. And its like no matter how hard you try its just never gonna be enough.They're always gonna find that one reason why it won't work - and if they don't,they'll keep your 'case pending'. You give your all but they still gonna want more outside and there's nothing you can do about that really.Someone said to me That" the worst thing you did thinking the person was gonna change. People hardly ever change ''...So, If someone cheats on you,they do not love you,remember that. If someone cheats on you,they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you,it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should be only for you. If someone cheats on you,Dear God!,I hope you don't go back to them because you are worth more than that. And if you're Ambivalent about what 'cheating' is,there no cause for alarm'- As long as you have to hide to do it or delete it from being seen - then you don't need to worry,cos you're already there!.

      Anything that doesn't make you happy in life,its best to walk away - But only after you're sure that you've put in a hundred percent so in time you can look back and say 'I tried! I coulda given you everything,but oh well.' BUT Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care #JustSayin .You only deserve the Kind of love You Give but most importantly no relationship is gonna last without trUSt.

        And to end this; I would like to thank all of you for you support and interest. Its been an amazing ride but before I go,I'll just leave you with sum'n '' Never take advantage of someone who likes you,Never say you're too busy to someone who needs you,Never cheat on the one who has trust in you ( if you have to hide to do it or delete it to avoid being seen,then its cheating).Finally,Never forget those who always remember you.''

Signing out,
Onile Justice